Hopefully I don’t start a mega-flame war here.
Husband and I just watched a documentary about home birthing w/ midwives, vs. birthing centers vs. hospital births. I don’t want to get too much into the nitty gritty of the details, but they had a lot of coverage of home births, and a lot of them were in water. In one birth, the mom-to-be was in a big tub with her husband sitting behind her and supporting her through the process.
So husband and I were reflecting on the movie, and he said to me that he wasn’t paying too close attention (I had wanted to watch this, plus we’re not planning on having babies any time soon so no biggie) but that there’s no way he’d be able to "get all naked" and "get in the tub" with me while I deliver.
*crickets*
So I said to him that that’s one of the reasons that we’re not going to have kids right now (apart from the million others), is that if we’re going to do it, we’re going all-in together, so we’re not going to have a baby until he can envision "getting all naked" and "getting in the tub" with me to help the delivery, if that’s what the situation necessitates.
I dunno. So now there’s a bit of an awkward silence, because we’re seriously NOT planning on having babies right now, but… but who says they "wouldn’t be able to handle" some part of childbirth to their WIFE?!? blah!!!!!
Okay, rant over. Sorry ladies (and gentlemen), I just needed to get that out before my brain exploded.